Is Having Girlfriend/Boyfriend Good for Teenagers?
At present, it is
common if teenagers have a special relationship. They do love each other, care
each other, and act like in couple. In different way, every teenager is
undergoing the same case in relationship also the same condition especially
physical and mental. Although relationship is concerned with feeling, it is
better to look at the logical view.
Teenager is the period
that human confuse with theirself. It makes an unstable condition in everything
even relationship. Instead of adult, teenagers is more difficult to be
understood. They do not know which is right or wrong, bad or good, white or
black, etc. This is a dangerous system in life. Their physical and mental
development change rapidly moreover their mood. So, this case makes them
difficult for deciding something in this period. When they had a broken line,
their mental will be made a wager. They can do the stupid thing easily. Hurting
each other for example.
As we know, special
relationship is an interpersonal relationship
of romantic feelings that involves
physical or emotional intimacy, also sexual
attraction between people such as liking and loving.
In relationship, they feel need for belonging also need to be cared for. The
dangerous thing is whether in relationship, teenagers give full of their heart
with a gambling situation. It is not good for their mental development as if get a broken heart. For their psicho, love is
good but not in that situation. In
teenagers relationship, otherwise, they have to be ready to go or stop in hurt
or do thing that is none of teenagers business.
Eventhough do special relationship
for teenagers is good for motivating
themselves or even destroying, it will be bad if the relation is over. It is
difficult to maintain the relation in teenagers. So, we have to deciding whether
having relationship is good for teenagers or not.
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